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I am not trying to imply either of you are considering marriage. They shared some thoughts on all aspects I think some could be of help.
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Iowa, thanks for the advice, I appreciate it.
KT, it is a good site, thanks for the link.
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I can only offer heartfelt condolences. It is terribly sad when this happens. I'm sure you will rise up and do the right thing for your child. God Bless.
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Denis, It's been about 20 years since I was in a similar situation. Even after that amount of time it still hurts when the memories come back. The only advice I can give you is to be as civil to your ex as possible when the child is around. They don't ask to be mixed up in adult issues and of course don't deserve to be in the middle of it either (as I'm sure you know).
Take one day at a time and hold on tight to the things that are solid in your life. You can get the toys and possessions some other time if you still want them.
Dave
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Terribly sorry to hear about this tragedy in your life.....I'll lift up a prayer for you and your son (and your wife) tonite....
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DenisS -
All the best to you and your son. Certainly heartfelt condolences are sent your way. Just realize, that your brethren that share your passion for the four wheeled beauties are standing with you.
Perhaps, you could bend an old coat hanger and paint it blue (as ROPS), spray a rhody bloom orange, and place them in the flower garden as a rememberance.
Have you ever tried to "ride" a 19" Murray ? Me thinks it would be rather slow, and uncomfortable! ...and the handle...where oh where could that go? (be nice now!  )
All the best ~
-Willie H
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Sorry to hear of your troubles as well Denis. I think Murf summed up my thoughts on this matter. Remember to count to 1,000 and put your initial feelings on hold to sort things out in a clear frame of mind.
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To all who responded to my initial post - my sincere thanks. I really appreciate it. This year will be an absolute re-build: personally and financially. On personal level, I'm not even at the stage to address the situation, but financially, you'd be surprised how bad you get whacked in your wallet in a divorse (did I mention this was NOT MY IDEA? why do I have to pay?) even without alimony. But in any case, once I'm on my feet again, I'm thinking of investing in a nice plot up in Maine - and then it's Kubota Time again!
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I ask my self that same question to this day about why do I have to pay and it has been five years. I can come up with only one answer the courts are biased on the side of women.
Good luck you are going to need it. I hope she is not a gold digger like my ex.
One more thing DennisCTB could have changed your screen name with out have to start a new membership he probably still could sent him an e-mail.
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Denis,
Understand the hurt. My next door neighbor was a sister in law and her family. She moved in the middle of the day while husband was at work and already had boy friend to move in with along with their children. How some people make the decisions they do is beyond amazing. Their divorce was just about 2 months ago. The hurt is very real in our household also.
But your furture ad hit me just now:
Wife wanted.
Must be committed to her family.
Needs to enjoy the outside.
Needs a few acres of rural land.
Needs a good barn and workshop.
Must have Kubota tractor with equipement.
Should be financially well off.
Would be nice if she can cook some.
Please send picture of tractor..
Okay forgive me ...guess it might be a JD by then.
GB
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