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Why is it hat you try to do every thing for them but they do not appreciate any of it and always expect more? I work 12 hours a day 6 days a week but she does not care. I am supposed to kiss her ass every minute of every day.
I am to the point where I am ready to tell here to take her stuff and get the hell out.
Am I the only one that is going through this? Any suggestions? I am loosing what is left of my mind.
PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!
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Sometimes that's the only thing you can do. I hear ya. I been there.
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Oneace, the grass is not greener on the other side of the hill? (I don't think I have that right). My wife gives me unending lists of work to do and is high strung. I can't invite my family over very often even though I have a palace for a place and would like to be at the center of the family. I think we have to take what comes our way and learn to live with it. You will substitute one problem for another. You have to look at the positive aspects of every person, which there are many.
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Next week will be our 15 year anniversary. Sometime she can make my blood pressure go plum off the scale and makes me feel like I need uproot oak trees but I have absolutely NO idea what I would do without her. Marriages do not come with a warrantee. You have to work at them everyday. I imagine that I am not the life of the party from time to time either. You gotta hang in there and communicate. Sometimes that means some hootin' and hollerin' but you still have to bear in mind that you are commited to her and your marriage. A LOT easier said than done.
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Oneace - are you married? If ya are...how long have you been? marriage is a carreer in it's self. And just like any carreer there are good pionts & bad pionts. A few years ago my wife & I went threw a tough time. We ended up seeing a conselor from our church. It helped majorly. You see we have horses & The year I built the barn was the year things went sour. I was working 12 hour days also, then I would come home & work 2 - 3 hours on the barn & fence. Then hit the shower & collapse. This is no way to live. You have to make time for each other. Buy her flowers tomarrow on your way home from work even though you may not want to & take her out to dinner. Do this once a week & things will improve. Also, At night when your in bed, turn the TV off & give her your undivided attention. Just a though.
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Well if you let yourself get walked on, then they will do just that if they can get away with it....
Have her go back to work...whats the point in having them sit around expecting things to be done for them...either they pull their weight or cut the boat anchor....see ya!!
If its thats bad go to some third party counciling, to find out if you even have a relationship
There is always the option of getting some on the side? not that I'm condoning that type of immoral behavior  ~
Duc
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Oneace,
I read your "Please help me" I wish I could my friend.
the best advice I could possibly give is it is obvious one or both of you have to start doing something different!!
I must tell you that sometimes things are just BROKEN, after 38 years I recycled mine!!
If you just need to talk My e-mail is in my profile but I am no substitute for an on site unbiased friend!
Best of luck,
Dean
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It has been two years. I know it has not been a long time to most but I am only 24. If it is like this now what will it be like in 5 or 10 years. I already take Valium to help control my outbursts. You see she has been spoiled by her parents her whole life. They paid all her bills ect. She is 25 years old I tell her it is time to get off her mothers tit and take responsibility for her self. I have been on my own since I was 15 years old. Pay my own bills and now hers. there seems to be no reasoning with her. I love her but I do not like her if that makes any sense? She does work but I do not know what she does with her money.She gives me about $200 a month the pay for $2500 a month in bills.
Do you think I stay with her for fear of being alone?
I have so many emotions running through my head and i can not concentrate on any of them.
As you all know I am an a$$ hole in here and in life. Maybe it is me. I am so confused my head is spinning.
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Far be it for me to give advise, but, please find a marriage counselor. It will help.
(I wish I could, the wife won't go.)
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The funny thing is I have had the chance to have one on the side but I have the damn thing called a concisions. Came reel close but i almost vomited with guilt. And i never even kissed the girl it was just the thought of what might have happened.
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